By Kilian
Love Don't Be Shy
Sweet · White floral · Vanilla.
parfumbible.comSweet · White floral · Citrus.
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Collection: The Narcotics
The short answer
A scent, in focus.
Love Don't Be Shy Extreme by By Kilian has a listed sweet, white floral, citrus profile, with notes of Neroli, Bergamot, Orange Blossom, Bulgarian Rose, Marshmallow.
Based on listed notes and accords.
Catalog snapshot · 2026-05-29. Ratings and votes come from the source dataset, not Parfum Bible users or live measurements. This entry has not yet received an individual editorial review.
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01 / The scent profile
Understand what you smell.
These are the listed scent notes, not a complete ingredient formula. Note placement does not establish how long a fragrance lasts.
Inside the bottle.
Concentration unspecified on official page · US listing · 100 ml refill; 50 ml perfume
Alcohol denat., Fragrance (parfum), Water\aqua\eau, Citric acid, Citronellol, Geraniol, Benzyl benzoate, Linalool, Limonene, Hydroxycitronellal, Farnesol, Citral, Cinnamal, Eugenol, Bht, Tocopherol
Source: Kilian Paris official US size-specific ingredient list · Checked 2026-09-22 · Formula reference ILN45866
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Performance / Community impressions
How it wears.
Longevity
3.61 / 5
471 votes
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category average, not hours
Projection
2.43 / 4
440 votes
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1 = intimate; higher = stronger
Value perception
2.06 / 5
448 votes
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1 = overpriced; 5 = great value
These are subjective reports, not controlled measurements.
2,186Own it
496Previously owned
3,136Want it
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03 / Keep exploring
Often compared with…
Explore these suggested comparisons. Similarity is subjective.
Memo Paris
Sintra
Citrus · Caramel · Sweet.
By Kilian
Love, Don't Be Shy Eau Fraîche
White floral · Floral · Sweet.
Parfums de Marly
Oriana
Eau de parfum
Sweet · Citrus · Fruity.
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Layering ideas to try.
Starting points from listed profiles, not community-tested pairings or compatibility scores.
Suggested experiment
DelinaBoth list Bergamot and Musk. Explore Love Don't Be Shy Extreme’s sweet direction alongside Delina’s rose profile. Shared notes offer a starting point for an experiment; the combination has not been wear-tested.
Compare each fragrance alone, then try a small amount together on a blotter. Keep the combination you enjoy; no application order or ratio has been validated.
Suggested experiment
Black OpiumBoth list Orange Blossom and Vanilla. Explore Love Don't Be Shy Extreme’s sweet direction alongside Black Opium’s vanilla profile. Shared notes offer a starting point for an experiment; the combination has not been wear-tested.
Compare each fragrance alone, then try a small amount together on a blotter. Keep the combination you enjoy; no application order or ratio has been validated.
A little more clarity.
Before you tryWhat does Love Don't Be Shy Extreme smell like?
Love Don't Be Shy Extreme by By Kilian has a listed sweet, white floral, citrus profile, with notes of Neroli, Bergamot, Orange Blossom, Bulgarian Rose, Marshmallow.
Who created it?
The listed perfumer is Calice Becker.
How long does it last?
The longevity rating is 3.61 out of 5, from 471 category votes. This is not a measurement in hours. A wear test is the best way to assess it for you.
Which notes define Love Don't Be Shy Extreme?
Its listed notes include neroli, bergamot, orange blossom, bulgarian rose, marshmallow, vanilla, musk, pomegranate. These describe the scent rather than its full ingredient formula.
04 / Find your next bottle
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Love Don't Be Shy Extreme
By Kilian
Leading accords
sweet
white floral
citrus
powdery
vanilla
Relative prominence, not ingredient percentages.Listed notes · a selection
Neroli · Bergamot · Orange Blossom · Bulgarian Rose · Marshmallow · Vanilla
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